ME and my ex.. help advice!!!?

me and my girl broke up 3 weeks ago after 3 and a half years cuz she wanted 2 experieence the single life basically. i begged her to get back and she told me to not talk 2 her so i did not. i sa her yesterday and she made it a point to come up to me and say hi and wanted 2 talk. she saw me and thought i would look worse cuz i was depressed, but i told her i was fine living my life. she asked if it was time to be friends and i told her no i could never just be friends,i am over it, but se will always be the love of my life. we talked more and she said she missed me, but didnt wanna get back and cried twice in front of me. I hugged her and told her not to cry and kissed her head. bt she is w someone and i asked if there going out n she said no no.. why would she cry? yet not want me back.? and said it was my fault we broke up cuz i was not payin that much ttention 2 her. she told me to call her when i could b friends. HONESTLY I WANNA E WITH HER AND WANT HER 2 WANT ME BACK. did i do good